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The Best Human Life Cycle

In my next life I want to live my life backwards.

You start out dead and get that out of the way.

Then you wake up in an old people’s home feeling better every day.

You get kicked out for being too healthy, go collect your pension, and then when you start work, you get a gold watch and a party on your first day.

You work for 40 years until you’re young enough to enjoy your retirement.

You party, drink alcohol, and are generally promiscuous, and then you are ready for high school.

You then go to primary school, you become a kid, and you play.

You have no responsibilities; you become a baby until you are born.

And then you spend your last 9 months floating in luxurious spa-like conditions with central heating and room service on tap, larger quarters every day and then Voila! You finish off as an orgasm

 

Author – Anonymous

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Source: http://www.onlymyhealth.com/damage-sperm-mental-health-children-due-stress-1371193640

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The Bullies

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I was just on google trying to research and get material for my post today. I typed on the google search: What is the term for a person who gets bullied? and I looked up the first link that topped all the other answers. I came upon this and was taken by it, I wanted to use it and rephrase it but I guess the person who wrote it did it much better. Here it goes (please don’t mind the typos, i pasted it as it is to keep the soul of the whole text intact):

Is there a word for someone who gets bullied by there friends but acts like it doesnt happen?

then does nice stuff for them, but doesnt receive anything except for rudenes

Best Answer – Chosen by Voters

denial is a good one, but it sounds like you already recognize this.
There is a saying ‘we teach people how to treat us’.
What you are teaching , is cruel people who are NOT your friends, that you will reward them with ‘nice stuff’, for abusing you.
I suspect that you have had this happen a lot to you and now you are trying to ‘change’ them by being nice.
It really doesn’t work that way.
Abusers will abuse unless they take steps to personally change, based on a change inside themselves and their own attitudes.
I would say you need some therapy as to why you respond this way, how to meet healthy people and what real friendship is.
Otherwise, you are being emotionally masochistic and self defeating.
Look up stockholm syndrome
or traumatic bonding, and see if that describes your childhood , or relationships.
Real love and friendships don’t treat each other this way. You don’t have to do this.They are not ‘friends’.
 
Reflecting on this I realized that bullies will cease to exist if there aren’t anyone to bully or abuse. If everyone has but one mind that it is not okay to be abused then all the bullies in the world will vanish into oblivion. If we learn to stand up for ourselves, fight for ourselves and learn how to defend ourselves against these kind of people then you regain the power that they have over you. I know it’s not easy but not trying to control your life and the situation you are in will also be your undoing.
 
Bullies do not have power, they are not much better.. not much smarter.. not wittier.. not stronger.. over you.. You can only be everything you want to be if you set your mind to it.  By allowing yourself to be abused you relinquish your power and control over to these bullies and they get the upper hand of the whole situation. If you strengthen your resolve to stand up to these kinds of people then you reclaim that which was initially yours.
 
Paradoxically, bullies are human too like you and me. They are just like any other ordinary people, they have feelings too. They might have been brought up differently, might have experienced things we have not encountered, might have seen things out of the ordinary..  Heck, they might be victims themselves of abusive people..  In short there are reasons why they are the way they are. In some ways, I do pity them. For me, they are the type of people who will never be happy. Will never find contentment in their hearts, will never have peace of mind. For as long as they feel and do the things they do they will never have  clarity, peace and serenity (as Fergie says it.. hehe) but kidding aside, bullies will never change who they are unless they do this themselves.. the power to change remains with them.
 
I guess in closing, I’d like to think I’m not a bully never have never will.. But then there are always two sides to every story. You just have to flip the coin to know which side you will be..
 
 
 
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The Pressure of Time

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Tick tock! Says the clock

Tick tock! My mind’s a block

Tick tock I just can’t stop

Tick tock! My brain’s gonna pop

Tick tock! I need to slow

Tick tock! Go with the flow

Tick tock! But how can I?

Tick tock! When I can’t get by

Tick tock! This passing phase

Tick tock! I must erase

Tick tock! This life of mine

Tick tock! Far from sublime

Tick tock! The time has pass

Tick tock! It’s come at last

Tick tock! All this must end

Tick tock! My life is spend

tick tock! tick tock! tick tock! tick…..

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Money.. money.. money

I know my topic of discussion is passé to everyone..

but even though that is the case I can’t help but touch this subject for the reasons that this is currently touching my life..

Money is such a driving force in anything that works in this world

It holds so much power that not having any brings people to so much misery

They say that money can never buy happiness well that’s BS (excuse my language!) but it does BIG TIME..

I mean how can you deny yourself the happiness of buying all the luxuries in the world

They say laughter is for free but when it comes down to feeding your mouth, having a roof on top of your head and basically living day to day can laughter make up for all those?!

I don’t mean to be cynical neither i don’t mean to be a hypocrite but come on! the world has come a long way from the time when people lived simply.. and gadgets where a thing that inventors dared to dream of..

Everything in the world works now because of money.. and that’s that.. there’s no sugar coating, no hidden message just plain and simple..

Money even changes the meekest of people.. I have nothing against those who have plenty of it, if only the world was FAIR.. where there shouldn’t be those who don’t have and those who have more..

But then Equality is one notion that is an impossibility in the world we live in.. Nothing is ever equal! heck! I live in a non-impartial place every single day..

Money makes criminals out of the poor, these things drive people crazy to the brink of desperation..

If there is one saying I do believe about money is that it is the root of all evil..

It dictates the rich to become greedy for more and the poor to be savages for want to have if only a meager amount of the whole..

So I therefore end this piece with a song by Meja that sums up the whole topic.. Which I’m sure all of you are familiar with..

Sometimes,
I find another world inside my mind.
When I realize the crazy things we do.
It makes me feel ashamed to be alive.
It makes me want to run away and hide.

-chorus-
Its all about the money,
its all about the dum dum duh dee dum dum.
I don’t think its funny.
To see us fade away.
Its all about the money,
its all about the dum dum duh dee dum dum.
and I think we got it all wrong anyway.

We find stranges ways,
of showing them how much we really care.
When in fact we don’t seem to care at all.
This pretty world is gettin out of hand.
So tell me how we failed to understand.

-chorus x2-
Its all about the money,
its all about the dum dum duh dee dum dum.
I don’t think its funny.
to see us fade away.
Its all about the money,
its all about the dum dum duh dee dum dum.
and I think we got it all wrong anyway.

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Nagmamaganda!

“I feel pretty.. oh so pretty.. I feel pretty and witty and gay!!” la la la la.. and so the song goes..

I recently watched the movie Anger Management and this song was the same one they sang every time they felt like exploding in anger.. This movie never failed to make me laugh but then this post is not about that.. 🙂

It just made me wonder what Pretty or Beautiful really means.. 

To a certain extent beauty should always be skin deep.. But we somehow live in a world that is shallow.. 

Where beauty is marketed as a commodity.. face value should be a certain high level of standard.. and body/beauty enhancements are no longer a thing of the past..

Being simple is now a taboo.. it is a sad world we’re living in.. really..

But honestly it doesn’t matter to me.. What matters is that as long as the person I love sees me as the most beautiful creature that has graced the earth, it’s more than enough for me..

Only that person’s opinion matter.. no one else.. and I guess we should have that mind set..

Being pretty should never be taken too seriously.. In the end we grow old and gray and none of that would matter..

 

We die.. and become ashes in our graves.. and that’s that..

Later on in the afterlife God will never ask what you did to make yourself beautiful instead the big question would be: What you did to make the world a beautiful place to live in… 

 

“I feel pretty.. oh so pretty.. and the rest is history….”

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A daughter is a daughter till the end… <3

 

I came across this wonderful story while doing my usual Facebook browsing..

I found it nice and inspiring.. I felt the need to share it..

A couple made a deal the night of their Marriage to NOT open the door of their room to anybody who comes knocking in the morning for any reason!
In the morning the parents of the husband came & knocked on the door, the husband & the wife were looking at each other & as they agreed before, they didn’t open the door.
After a while the parents of the bride came knocking at the door to check on them, the couple were looking at each other, then the bride dropped a tear & started crying she said: “I cannot keep them knocking & not open the door, I miss them already”
The husband didn’t say anything & he let her open the door for her parents.
Years & years passed & the couple had 5 children, the first ones were boys & the 5th was a little girl, when she was born the father was xtremely happy that Almighty blessed him with her, & he threw a Huge Party for her in Grand style, people were so amazed with his joy & his happiness that they asked him, why are you so happy with her more than you were before with her older brothers?
He answered simply: “She is the one who will open the door for me”
Baby girls are the comfort of the eyes of their father!
They hold the key to their mothers hearts!
Daughters are really unique.
They care for their parents even after they are married.
Its rightly said, “A son is a son till he gets a Wife, a daughter is a daughter the rest of her Life!
Dedicated to all daughters & Daughter in Laws