Posted in Let's talk about LOVE

Treat your girl right. Plain and Simple.

I know it can be hard to please her sometimes, but it’s worth it in the end.
Remember that she’s your happiness, your world. She should be the first person you talk to in the morning, and the last person you whisper “Good night” to.

Unlike some of your bros, she’s going to be there for you when you’re the happiest, but more importantly, when you’re at your lowest. She’ll cook for you and care for you, so treat her like a queen. Girls are delicate creatures. Think before you say. Think before you act. They take every little mistake you make and multiply it by a thousand. So try not to mess up, alright?

When you’re fighting, sometimes it’s better to put your relationship before your own pride. You’re not helping yourself by making her upset. And never, ever, under any condition, let her go to sleep crying. She’ll resent you for it for the rest of your days. 

Don’t forget to make her feel special everyday. Open doors, go shopping with her. Hell, make dinner for her! The more you show her you love her, the more she’ll give you in return. Remember that an “I love you” via text is never as special as one in person. 

And show her off to your bros, don’t be ashamed of her. She’s never been ashamed of your dorky ass. Look, she doesn’t really need much in a relationship; she just wants to feel like she matters to you. That’s not asking for much.

But if you haven’t learned a thing from reading this, remember this. Love her unconditionally, loyally, and keep her close. Love her with everything you’ve got: emotionally, mentally, and physically. Because I swear, if you won’t treat your girl right, someone else definitely will.



Repost from some anonymous writer in FB (posts and photos are not mine)

Posted in LIFE in general


“I feel pretty.. oh so pretty.. I feel pretty and witty and gay!!” la la la la.. and so the song goes..

I recently watched the movie Anger Management and this song was the same one they sang every time they felt like exploding in anger.. This movie never failed to make me laugh but then this post is not about that.. 🙂

It just made me wonder what Pretty or Beautiful really means.. 

To a certain extent beauty should always be skin deep.. But we somehow live in a world that is shallow.. 

Where beauty is marketed as a commodity.. face value should be a certain high level of standard.. and body/beauty enhancements are no longer a thing of the past..

Being simple is now a taboo.. it is a sad world we’re living in.. really..

But honestly it doesn’t matter to me.. What matters is that as long as the person I love sees me as the most beautiful creature that has graced the earth, it’s more than enough for me..

Only that person’s opinion matter.. no one else.. and I guess we should have that mind set..

Being pretty should never be taken too seriously.. In the end we grow old and gray and none of that would matter..


We die.. and become ashes in our graves.. and that’s that..

Later on in the afterlife God will never ask what you did to make yourself beautiful instead the big question would be: What you did to make the world a beautiful place to live in… 


“I feel pretty.. oh so pretty.. and the rest is history….”


Posted in Just messing with my mind


Am I crazy for feeling elated today?

Am I crazy for having this smile on my face?

Is being crazy shifting from one feeling to another?

I am crazy.. crazy in love..

Crazy for a million reasons but one

That is YOU.. 

If being crazy is what it takes to be with you.. 



Then so be it.. Crazy it is then.. ❤




by: Jessica Gadiane

Posted in Just messing with my mind

A deep dark moment…

I cried today..

I cried really hard and just this moment today..

I have not cried for awhile now.. and I wonder why..

Maybe I was just too happy.. or I did not have the time..

But I cried today..

My tears fell freely on my cheeks.. My heard pounding..

A muffled noise escaped my mouth..

And I felt as if something was squeezing the air out of my lungs..

There were people around and I could not help it..

I had the urgent need to let it out..

And so I kept on crying..

I was sad for a million reasons.. but can’t point out one..

I was feeling perplexed and confused..

I was crying all pent up emotions.. I cried..

Yet that was not enough..

I did not want to feel.. I wanted to just cry and not feel..

Quite an impossible feat..

So my tears continued..

I know not what made me stop..

Was it my boss who came into the office so unexpectedly..

The phone ringing..

An urgent email that needed my attention..

But I stopped.. yet the pain remained..

Crying.. Hurting.. Loneliness…

I cried today..


by: Jessica Gadiane

Posted in Let's talk about LOVE

A poem I want to share…

If I tell you

If I tell you “I Love You” … I mean I love you.

Too many times these days that phrase is just thrown out there from those that don’t understand the commitment of “love”…or what love is.

When I tell you I will always be there…no matter what.
No matter how much you hurt me. It means …”I Love You”

If you go your way. And are happy without me….I will still love you. Because your happiness is what I always truly wanted.

Love is not just the euphoria of the beginning but it is also the journey in all its highs and lows….the commitment to be together.
Or understanding the need to be apart. 

I told you I love you …I still do.

Saying goodbye and throwing away “like” is easy.
Saying goodbye to “love” is hard.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS “LOVED”… or such a word.

Love is never a past tense when it is genuine….it “is”….always…never ending. 
“I will always love you.”
You will always be loved ……once “truly” loved by a person.

Some think you fall out of love…no you fall out of “like“…you fall out of the idea of love. 

Love.…..well…. love is…..… is forever. 

You occupy a space of unique emotion, feelings and memories in another’s world that will always be….yours.

If I tell you I care…then I care.
If I tell you I want you…then I want you. 

If I tell you “I Love You” ……Then I love you……..forever.



R. Kent

Posted in Let's talk about LOVE


Love has its own time, its own season, and its own reasons for coming and going.

Too often, when love comes to people, they try to grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a gift freely given and a gift that just as freely moves away. When they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lostrather than accepting the gift for what it was.
They want answers where there are no answers. They want to know what is wrong with them, or they try to get their lover to change, thinking that if some small thing were different love would bloom again. They blame their circumstances. They blame each other. They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they accept its own mysterious ways they live in a sea of misery.
You need to treat what love brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just doesn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.
If you find someone else in love with you toward whom you feel no love, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how love will deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are very different.
If you fall in love with another who falls in love with you, and then chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know it in time, but time itself will choose the moment.
Remember this and keep it in your heart. You don’t choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it to you. Give it to others who seem poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.
Love has its own time, its own season, and its own reasons for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it or reason it into staying. If it chooses to leave, from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and nothing you should do. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. If you keep your heart open, it will surely come again

Written by Tricia Neville
Posted in Let's talk about LOVE

The art of letting go..

“Love is like a traffic light, there are three colors which becomes a guide for us to know when to stop, to let go and to take action.”

“Loving someone so much doesn’t always mean they’re the right one for us.”

Hindi laging may happy ending kapag nagmamahal ba because true love never ends

May pagkakataong mararamdaman mo ang sakit na dulot ng pagmamahal mo.

Masakit isiping may mga taong hindi kayang magpahalaga sa mga taong nagmamahal sa kanila.

Sabi nga..

“Its better to accept that the fact that you are not appreciated than to insist yourself to someone who never really see your worth.”

Habang patuloy mong minamahal ang taong yun mas lalo kang nasasaktan


natatakot kang tanggapin ang maaari pang mangyari

Na ang taong buong puson mong minamahal ay bulag sa pagmamahal mo.

Hindi porket mahal mo ang taong yun sya na tlaga ang para sayo

Natatakot kang mawala ang taong pinakamamahal mo per sya ba takot ding mawala ka?

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be.

May mga bagay sa mundong hindi nakatakda para sa atin.

maaring ang mga bagay na ninanais natin na maging sa atin sana ay iyon pang hindi kailanman magiging atin.

Kailangan mong matutong magparaya “let go” upang maka move on at maka get over tayo sa sakit ng nakaraan.

Loving someone is setting them free, letting them go.


Oo.. para sa katulad mong nagmamahal

Never say goodbye because goodbye means going away and going away means forgetting

to let go its not to deny but to accept

The hardest thing to do is letting go not because you want to but because you have to

May mga taong darating sa buhay natin na syang muling magbabangon sa atin sa kabila ng pait ng nakalipas

Huwag nating isarado ang puso natin dahil..

sa tayo’y nagparaya..


o nasaktan

kundi may taong handang pumasok muli.

While someone breaks your heart, another someone else is waiting to fix it.

Proceed with caution. “Careful forethought to avoid danger or harm”

Natatakot tayong masaktan..

Natatakot tayong harapin ang pwedeng mangyari..

Natatakot tayong magmahal muli..

..kaya nga nauso ang salitang “courage”

yan ang kailangan natin to “Take action”

Kung ang traffic light ay may yellow light para sa caution sign

Sa love ganun din kung alam nating masasaktan lang tayo at di maaring pumapel.. Huwag na natin pahirapan pa ng husto ang sarili natin

Kung baga sa elevator kung alam na nating siksikan na huwag na tayong magsumiksik pa.

may hagdan nman ayaw lang natin pansinin..




-written by someone and got this from Facebook (amazing person, whoever u r! thanks!)